71: Why Conformity Sucks With Erlinda Shen

Erlinda Shen is a mommy-preneur that allows her to work from home and spend more time with her kids.Why Conformity Sucks With Erlinda Shen

It’s crazy to think before that Erlinda would have to watch her every move because she used to think she had to do what everyone told her to do. She would have to conform to others expectations which was draining her self confidence.

Find out what Erlinda did to get out of conformity and how you can apply it in your own journey.


Erlinda Shen is a content writer.

Cultural Background

Erlinda is of Mexican and Puerto Rican descent.

Favorite Self Confidence Quote

Just do it!

just do it

Definition of Self Confidence

Doing the action even if you are not totally confident in that area and working with what you got.

Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence

Life was hell for Erlinda with a controlling mother.  Erlinda thought she had to conform to what people told her to be instead of being herself which gave her low self esteem.

Because Erinda conformed to what people wanted her to be, she thought she never deserved a better life.

The “AHA” Moment

Erlinda lived on her own for the first time and its where she could do anything she wanted without anyone telling her what to do.  If she wanted to go out on the pool for a swim, she did just that and felt so free for the first time in her life.

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Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence

Life is different for Erlinda, she gets to do the things she does without asking for anyone’s permission.

The One Self Confidence Tip For the Listener

Constantly re-evaluate your thoughts.  Start asking what is holding you back and how you can overcome it.  Take control of your own life.

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