14: You Are What You Tolerate With Meylysa Duldulao

Meylysa Duldulao is living the life in the beaches of Hawaii with  her husband Jomel and her 2 year old son.  Mey chooses You Are What You Tolerate With Meylysa Duldulaowhat she wants to do to make her happy.  She loves to surf and help people out with her financial freedom blog.

It took Mey a while to be happy in her life because she was always worrying about what other people thought about her which led to being unhappy and stressed.

As an woman in an Asian culture, we are always told to please others not knowing the consequences we put on our own self worth and self confidence.

Mey will share with you what she had to do to be able to live the life she desires and find true happiness.


Meylysa is a financial blogger and banker teaching people how to be financially free.

Cultural Background

Born in Montreal, Meylysa is part Taiwanese and French Canadian.

Favorite Self Confidence Quote

Just do it!

Just do it!

Definition of Self Confidence

Just being yourself.

Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence

Worried about what people thought about whatever she was doing.

This drained Mey’s energy and her self confidence was low because all she cared about was what other people thought of her.

She ended up not doing the things she wanted to do most and was always tired and stressed from the negative thinking.

The “AHA” Moment

After being i a bad relationship. Mey had to reflect and wonder why or how she attracted this into her life.

She started studying self development to start attracting the good things into life.

Mey also went on crazy adventures that most people would never even thought of doing like her teaching kung-fu in a mountain in China.

By doing the things she loved and that most people would consider as crazy, she stopped carrying about what other people thought of her and finally started doing the things she loved.  She started to become more happy and lived life in her own terms.

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Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence

Mey now does the things that she wants to do to make her happy.  If she wants to surf, she goes surfing.

She has boundaries for herself and only tolerates what makes her happy without caring what other people think of her.

The One Self Confidence Tip For the Listener

Go do what you love to do.  Doesn’t matter what it is, just do it.

The more you do the things you love, the more confident you become.

You have everything inside that you need already to get the confidence you need, just start doing the stuff you love.

The words that you say to yourself and your thoughts matter as well.

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