128: Fall In Love With Yourself With Kelsi Hayashi

Kelsi Hayashi is an online Business Mentor, Health & Wellness Coach, and Founder of Project #MadeForMore.

Kelsi has been through her share of obstacles dealing with extreme eczema, being overweight and not being happy in her own skin. She made a decision to take charge of her life by first falling in love with herself which has attracted all the success she has in all areas of her life.

Tune into this episode to learn how Kelsi is able to live her dream life and how you can apply it in your own life.

Bio

Kelsi Hayashi is an online Business Mentor, Health & Wellness Coach, and Founder of Project #MadeForMore.

Cultural Background

Kelsi is of Japanese and Chinese descent.

Favorite Self Confidence Quote

When the voice and the vision on the inside, become more profound and more clear and loud than the opinions on the outside, you have mastered your life.

Definition of Self Confidence

It’s two part. Having self confidence means:
1. Having faith in your ability to create a positive future and
2. Being able to LIVE in a mindset of trust in yourself, your abilities, & your worth.

Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence

Kelsi felt really ugly. She didn’t see her own self worth or what it was that she had to offer the world. Kelsi didn’t feel significant or qualified enough to do anything with impact. And because of it, she always took the safe route. She really struggled with knowing who she was as an individual and being secure enough in herself to make bold decisions in her life.

The “AHA” Moment

Losing 50 pounds and moving away to Virginia to be with her boyfriend, who is a pilot and gone alot. Kelsi became very lonely and she got to this point in her life that she felt VERY pushed up against a wall. She had this moment of realization that she didn’t know who she was without her family & friends. Kelsi was raised with a big emphasis on community, not individual,both in her family and among her friends. So taking her out of her environment, was a really weird experience for Kelsi.

BUT, because of it & that feeling of being pushed up against a wall, it forced Kelsie to face some really big demons that she had and to shine a light on herself and the things that she needed to do to grow as a person.

Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence

It’s an ever growing state of mind for Kelsi because she discovered something new every day. But one of the biggest things for her is, that she is finally happy with herself. She is much more at peace in her life and she found that even if life is chaotic on the outside, she is at peace & in a place to deal with it on the inside. And now, when she looks at herself in the mirror, she is proud of that woman and it feels amazing.