431: Keep Being Yourself With Kartika Nair
Kartika Nair is the founder of Synchroshakti. Her purpose is to create content to empower people mentally, emotionally and spiritually, through Youtube videos, coaching, training and higher conscious music. Over the years, Kartika has successfully coached hundreds of people across the world through her Youtube videos, one on one personal coaching session and wellness training programs.
Kartika shares what is was like she tried to be somebody else for others instead of being her true self. The more she was her true self, the more confidence she had to the work that she is doing today. Check out her episode to listen to her story.
Kartika Nair is the founder of Synchroshakti.
Kartika is of Indian descent.
Favorite Self Confidence Quote
Definition of Self Confidence
Self confidence is absolute peace with and appreciation of all of you, your light, your dark, every form in which your personality extends and manifests itself and being unapologetically you, without the fear of losing respect or love in the process.
Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence
Before self confidence, Kartika was always a loner with very unhealthy perceptions of herself. She also had very acute social anxiety and self loathing.
The “AHA” Moment
Even though Kartika despised herself for being so different from her peers, she never could change or be like them. She tried but it didn’t work. When she kept being herself, slowly people respected it, and then celebrated it even. She saw it was cool to be uncool, and she never went back, that was her aha moment.
Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence
Its brighter for Kartika because she is not walking into a room crippled with anxiety about what she looks like or if she was cool enough for her peers to respect her. Kartika is cool, to herself, so she can look people in the eye and confidently and proudly introduce herself, and make an impression before she leaves the room. Giving her training, and performing music has also been dramatically transformed by increasing her confidence.
The One Self Confidence Tip For the Listener
If the divine made you, he made you perfect. Drop what is false in you, and find what is true in you, and fall in love with it. And be proud, because in the eyes of the divine, there are no defects.