197: The Ability to Say No With Aliya Janjua
Aliya Janjua is a Connector, learner, and seeker of inspiring conversation. She is also the Founder
of the podcast series Confessions of Successful Asian Women. Her mission is for Asian women to break gender and cultural stereotypes. She believes that Asian Women are fearless and demonstrate resilience, passion, and determination every day whether it’s in their professional or personal lives.
It was pretty difficult for Aliya in the beginning to live life on her own terms since she was raised to live the traditional route. She realized when started to say no to things that don’t serve her, that’s when she was able to start living life for herself instead of living life for others. Tune into today’s episode to find out how she did it.
Aliya Janjua is a mentor, podcaster and senior leader.
Aliya is of Pakistani descent.
Favorite Self Confidence Quote
You will be defined not just by what you achieve, but by how you survive.
Definition of Self Confidence
Pick yourself up and keep going.
Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence
Aliya lived the traditional life which was go to school, get good grades, get a good job, get married and never rock the boat. Since she was the eldest of three, she to always set a good example for her younger sisters. She was also a people pleaser.
The “AHA” Moment
Aliya realized she didn’t have to say yes to everything. When she had the ability to say NO, her confidence grew.
Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence
Aliya is more in tune with her physical being and she is feeling more at peace with herself.
The One Self Confidence Tip For the Listener
Keep on going and commit to yourself.