16: How to Break Free From Seeking the Approval of Others With Melanie Le
But her life never started that way. In fact, Melanie was too afraid to make the leap of faith to go out on her own because she was always seeking the approval of others.
Being this way caused Melanie to always doubt the decisions she made on her own since she couldn’t trust herself.
In this episode, you will learn what made Melanie decide to change her old ways and is now able to live a life without seeking the approval of others.
Melanie Le is an internet entrepreneur teaching people how to get targeted traffic to their business.
Melanie is of Vietnamese decent.
Favorite Self Confidence Quote
Don’t change yourself so that other people will like you. Be yourself so that the right people will love you.
When you start seeing your worth, you will find it harder to stay around people who don’t.
Behind every successful woman is herself.
Don’t be afraid to give up the good to acquire the great.
Believe that you can make a difference in this world because you are extraordinary.
Definition of Self Confidence
Someone who is living in their true definite purpose. Someone who speaks her truth with honor, integrity, conviction and love.
Her Life Before the Discovery of Self Confidence
Before her discovery, Melanie was very insecure and had low self esteem seeking the approval of others.
She was a big people pleaser by seeking the opinion of others before her own. This led her to not being able to make her own decisions and live in utter fear of what others thought of her.
The “AHA” Moment
Melanie had a realization that she does have a voice and that voice needs to be heard by the world. We are worthy of speaking our truth.
Her Life After the Discovery of Self Confidence
Melanie is at peace with herself and can live a life on her own terms without the stress and pressure of what other people think of her.
The One Self Confidence Tip For the Listener
Make you don’t see yourself through the eyes of others who don’t value you. Always know your worth and refuse to be average.